DB'ing but it's a daily struggle - need support 2

[ScaredinCanada]

"My wife is very stubborn.Once she takes a certain position, it is not likely that she is going to move from it"

Really? She change her mind about being with you forever.

My C told me that. He is right.

I appreciate that 2Step, but it's just not the same thing.

It's only been 3 months since the B for me, and about 6 months total (based on the 3 months my W said she was contemplating it). We've got at least 3 months until we make a decision to list the house, and then at least 3 more months until a sale and closing - best case scenario. I guess even then it's just a chance in the sitch, and we still won't be divored, just seperated.

I hope she eventually sees that she can love me, because currently that's what she says is holding her back everytime we have an R talk. Also, even though the R with my mother has been "addressed" it hasn't been resolved, and I'm not really sure how to move it forward. My W doesn't want anything to do with my parents, but at the same time she wants them to involve her if they want to see their grandkids. I need to figure out how to move that R forward...