Stay strong Pickle. I totally relate to almost wanting W to leave NOW so she can go live this fantasy life and I have an easier time moving on with mine. "You said you wanted out ... so get out already"

But, I keep my mouth shut mostly. Anyway, I'm there with you but I haven't had to face an OM situation.

B.I.T.S

Formerly known as onStepAtATime
Me:31 W:31
T:13 yrs M:8 yrs
D: 20 months
ILYBNILWY: 9/22/10
"I want a separation" 1/05/11