I am sorry you are going through this. It all rings so true to my situation which started about 5 years ago. It does get better. He is clearly in a crisis and you do not know what the outcome of this will be. I was married to my ex for 19 years, so I know how it feels to be abandoned in a long term marriage. It is devastating. Let God be your husband for this time. Ask him everyday to guide you and to take care of you. He will..........
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11