Antonio,

I am sorry you are going through this. It all rings so true to my situation which started about 5 years ago. It does get better. He is clearly in a crisis and you do not know what the outcome of this will be. I was married to my ex for 19 years, so I know how it feels to be abandoned in a long term marriage. It is devastating. Let God be your husband for this time. Ask him everyday to guide you and to take care of you. He will..........


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11