Its easy to see why so many marriages end up in divorce because I don't think there are that many people out there who are willing to put the effort and time into trying to save their marriage. Most people that I talk to about relationships, say that if they found out that their spouse no longer wants to be with them, they would be gone in a second. Why would you put yourself through all of the agony and frustration????
I ask myself this question everyday, do I really want her back? She is the mother of my children and we did have a great life at one time. I am prepared to do whatever it takes to get that back for the benefit of my kids.
You are doing what the majority of people out there do not have the strength, courage or determination to do. Hang in there!