Sigh...i went home for lunch and found a copy of a blank legal separation agreement. I will have to deal with this i guess.
Lainey, i might sound good but it has its ups and down as i'm sure you can appreciate. It is certainly a process to detach and one of the hardest things to do. When i read others threads and stories i see the hardest thing seems to be for people to detach and learn to accept they could be happy as a single entity. Many LBS seem to have a hard time with the prospects of being 'lonely' and i only feel for them. I've had a long time myself to get over this. I certainly recall when this all started and being lonely was my ever present thought. But no more.
Glad to see you have come to terms with this too Lainey. Otherwise it makes everything else difficult to deal with.