Don't know what to think..

[AntoniaB]

My heart breaks for you because this is like hearing a lot of what I went through over a year ago again. It's script, it's textbook, it's sad.

There will be some who come by to give you things to read and it's good to hear you already talked to a DB coach. I just wanted to say that I'm sorry you are going through this and there are tons of us just like you who are in or who have been in the same place and you will receive lots of support here.

I guess the best advice I can give you initially is to always sit back on things and not try to react when really emotional, to cultivate an extraordinary amount of patience and then some, to get yourself into counseling even if he won't go, and to protect yourself financially.

I'm so sorry. I've been where you are and I'm now divorced. I take it one day at a time, and this board has given me the support I need to make it through.