LL, Simple question. Do you LOVE your H. Maybe I should say, are you IN LOVE with your H. If you read in DBing it says plain as the nose on your face that one of the common excuses for leaving a M is that one party feels that things have been bad for too long and they will never change. Michele says, "Not true." It's NEVER too late to change, and a person CAN change. If your not going to give up on your H just yet, you have to change yourself first if you want him to change. Go back to DBing and read the first few chapters. That might motivate you some. Maybe not, but it's worth a shot isn't it?? Rachael
