Chapter 3 the end? Or new beginning?

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2Step, If it helps, I would say that you are in a very good position. You say that your W is DBing too. That's very good!!

My wife says that she just wants to move on and just wants to make it easy for both of us.

I have already signed and sent the signature waiver last week. So it means that the D process has started. The next step is me contacting her to ask her what she needs from this D. I too am planning to go at it without the A. We dont have that much money saved up. So i dont want those A's eating them up...

The A route is horrendous with those eating up on both sides. I am hoping that my W will be rational to see that and see if we can carve out who gets what...

Thats the devastating part for me. I dont want the D to happen. But when i am talking to her, I am trying to stay strong and let her have what she wants. I told her on sunday "W, you wanted to be happy. I too want your happiness. So if D makes you happy, so be it". These were the hardest words that i have said to her. Kills me inside to see her go through this. Kills me to know that my D will grow knowing me less. I have made up my mind that i will try to grow as a person and will try to pursue her even after the D.