Seems like we're looking for the same thing. I signed up for the EHarmony free thing, but you can't see pics and I don't know if they can contact me. Also, it's $45 a month and you have to sign up for a minimum of 3 months. Just not quite sure about the online thing. I contacted a guy on the Fitness Singles site but he didn't write back. I hate that, it's so rude!
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10