Sandycay,

I've heard everything you said and I totally agree. I just want that healthy man...are they out there? It seems many of the men in our age range are emotionally or financially devastated (or both) by their divorces or life experiences. Sigh....

I don't want to be a fool and I don't want to be a "notch" on someone's belt. I look to be in my early 40's, but not in my 30's by any stretch of the imagination. And I'm FINE with that. What I'm not fine with is the lack of decent men around the age of 50.

Yes, I agree with you on all the STD stuff. I will need to see written proof before my clothes come off!


Me 55
H 49
Married 21 years
No kids
bomb 5/09
filed 7/09
divorced and moving forward 5/10

Life is all about Plan B