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[JR09]

Now that I am as close as ever in proximity to my W, I think I wanted to do things too quickly: get her to talk to me, get any feedback, ask for a meeting together, etc, etc. I lost sight of the bigger picture which is to be patient and consistent.

Got to refocus. Got to detach more effectively. I realize now how nervous and excited I've been each time I see my W during those BB games. Too excited, too impatient, wanting things to happen now, etc etc.

I think I've been doing well til I moved closer to my W and kids. I need to regroup and detach. I really think that was my missing link. Anyway, just thinking...

Joel