Oh boy, I don't think I agree at all about contacting her first. I understand the rules, I swear I do. Here's the thing: these people are YOUR FAMILY. And that you want to protect them is a GOOD THING within reason. I do not AT ALL believe that asking if she is safe and off icy roads is pursuing. I honestly think that if you hadn't made sure that they were ok that there would be something wrong. I, personally, would not have had a lot of respect for that.
Additionally, I think that her texts were good. If she was not interested and didn't want your attention when you asked her if she was home safe, she could have answered, "yes, thanks." But that is not what happened, she offered additional information. Also, she kept the conversation going and it was you who ended it. That's also a good thing. She told you to let the faucets drip, again, a good thing. Why, it shows that she cares and trying in a way to take care of you.
I know this is so hard. I know you are trying so hard. Try to be peaceful because you are doing awesome! I am praying for you!!!
