Exactly!! ^^^^^ My plan on Friday is to sit pleasantly with my hands folded in my lap, and let the L do the talking. H knows he has more to lose in a court room than I ever did.

Look out for #1 - and that NOW means YOU.

ME: 54
Him: 51
M: 20 years T: 21 years
OW/New wife: 36
Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36)
Bomb: March 4, 2010
He Filed: April 28, 2010
I Contested: May 1, 2010
Standing Down: 11/24/10
Divorced : 05/04/2011