1) she wakes up 2) you both agree to work on the marriage 3) you both make changes 4) your marriage is saved
It's most likely to work in this order:
1) you wake up to the fact your changes come first 2) you make changes and attract her back 3) she wakes up from the fog because you're so doggone amazing 4) she wants to come back 5) you tread slowly, as she makes her changes 6) your marriage is saved 7) you BOTH keep your changes going
I hope you start now, because it isn't too late. But you have a speeding truck going. Put the brakes on.
