I will confront her about a few things that she still paints this picture that I'm manipulative of certain everyday tasks and chores, such as bills and logistics. The reason why I think I should backtrack is because I should have spoken up when I was questioned during those times, but I was so unprepared that I feel like they were missed opportunities. I need to clear the air some, otherwise she'll keep walking around questioning every decision, action and changes I make. Then again, maybe it's pointless.
You have to be prepared for anything when you have a WAW. She is not the girl you M and you can stand around wondering what happen, or you can begin preparing yourself.
Why is your W just now learning what the cable/Internet cost? Does she know what the other bills are?
I would not confront her about the conversation last night b/c it will end in a fight.
I think you do need to question some of your motives....like deciding to change groomer without saying anything to her. Then it turned out to be more expensive? You see, from her POV you are doing these things to jab at her.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
