Do you have anything to say about the part where I said that you were treating your H just like my ex treated me? I mentioned that because it is not a recipe for success. And quite frankly, we got along much better than you two do. We get along much better in divorce than you two do. I'll bet we speak to each other more too.
My ex thought she nagged. I didn't hear it. But then again, my mother was the queen. So, any nagging I received was almost sweetalk.
Children. I see adult children who have a harder time than young children with this stuff. Obviously, a home with two loving parents is the optimal setup. The other querstions are ones I can't answer except to say we do our best to make it work for our children.
LL, what I see when you post are excuses. You can't do anything. The truth is that you won't do anything. That is ok too. But once you have made the decision not to do anything, then you have no right whatsoever to complain about the way your H treats you and the kids.
