DB'ing but it's a daily struggle - need support 2

[habitacker]

For better or for worse.

The problem is that nobody has any idea when they are getting married what the "worse" could possibly be.

When you all talk about the bad feelings for your wives, and wonder why you even want them? I feel it is because this is the "worse", but you promised to take them that way, and are keeping your word no matter what. It means something to you, as it does me also.

This is where I struggle. "worse" We didn't know what that was going to be. I didn't know I would be the cause of so much of it. I didn't want to do the things or become the person that I did. I am truly sorry, but this is "worse", this is what happens in marriage and life, it doesn't just run smoothly all the time, very little actually. "worse" , we are supposed to go through this together. Anybody can stick around for the "better".