A Lovestruck Romeo Singing the Streets in Serenade

[FellOnBlackDays]

Denver,
Two quick things: 1) I think 2step is right. There is a pattern forming in your "updates." She gets in a bind, needs a place to put SS for a spell and you jump. You may want to back off on that. Don't become her "insurance policy." Next time she asks, tell her you are busy. I think this is the third time that you have immediately agreed to take him to save her. Next time, politely refuse and then she how she reacts. If she blows up, you know she is using you as a babysitter. If she finds another alternative without much emotion, you are probably on firm ground. Just my opinion. If you truly enjoy being with your SS, then do it. But, make sure that she isn't using you to watch him and for no other reason.

2) Still looking good, but don't worry about how things went tonight. You were texting. There is no possible way you could determine her mood or facial expressions while she was texting. For all you know, she could have been smiling the whole time. That is why I hate texting or email. My W and I have agreed to calls and voicemails only and it does help. I don't have to guess her mood when I can clearly hear it on the other side of the line. Also, just a thought to consider.

You are still "the man," right now. Get your head up and chest out. You are still light years ahead of many of us, especially me. Make tomorrow a good day!

BITS never walk alone!!

FOBD