Bolt, I think you are correct, but I am going to take my time and wait for a good opportunity.
Of course I waited for her to come to me so I could give the validation talk and I finally had to make the move first, which I think turned out ok.
I have been so stuck on not going to her for R talk. This is basic DBing, but I know my wifes personality, and she doesn't take the first step very often. So if I am going to have to make the move, it will have to be good timing, and well thought out.
It would be kind of hard to tell her the thing she is missing in her life that used to make her happy is me. I bet she would find that hard to believe.
H-40 W-38 Together-20 Married-12 boy-7 girl-3 bomb-9/17/10 No papers live together No affair