Hmmmm, your first paragraph talks about not even a glimmer of hope.

Your second paragraph looks to be the opposite to me.

I would suggest you keep the church thing to yourself. Maybe it is something she feels she needs to do for herself.

Why is she going now? Who knows, but I sure can't see anything wrong with it. He does work in mysterious ways I hear.

H-40 W-38
Together-20
Married-12
boy-7 girl-3
bomb-9/17/10
No papers
live together
No affair