It's not easy, we all understand that. Our spouse was always the one we could count on for positive strokes that picked US up when we were down. Now they seem to say whatever pops in their mind, with NO regard for how deeply it cuts.
You've said it a couple of times; she's nuts. Some here have called those wandering spouses "batchit crazy." Probably an apt description.
Find a way to walk away from such conversations. And don't hesitate, once in awhile, for restating YOUR position.
You have to learn to have very thick skin if you hope to weather this thing.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
