I am SO happy to read what you all write; seriously, I am so glad to have some support!

I will turn 50 in September and I think just that number scares off a lot of men. I went to a therapist on Sunday and even she thinks I should date younger. Okay, but how young? Are any of the rest of you just a bit nervous to get involved with a guy around the age of 40? I'm scared to death!! I just can't do another classic MLC which is what happened to me.

So, then....what? I want to date a 50 yr. old, but I don't want Santa Claus and that's all I am finding! I'm on Fitness Singles, but I think that's not the best site. I'm on there because I want someone active; I think the guys are on there just to find a fit woman to have sex with.

Eharmony is free until Feb. 28, but only the basic stuff. So far it looks like a "tease" to get you to join and I'm not certain I want to.


Me 55
H 49
Married 21 years
No kids
bomb 5/09
filed 7/09
divorced and moving forward 5/10

Life is all about Plan B