to be honest I don't exactly know why perhaps all the years of that empty promise of things will be easier next year...I'll have more time next year..vacations comming up...etc I bought into the illusion..who knows.
cupcake,
another tatoo...hmmmm been thinking about it...a belly button ring...have one...a new hair cut? in the process of letting it grow...different clothes? I'm already eclectic there aint much left to add to the wardrobe cept maybe a potato sac.
IMP,
solution #2...ultimatums are useless...what it would incude though is a warning that I fear things heading to a point where and ultimatum or pink slip (is that what they give you when you get fired?) will be given. No timelines just stating where the way things are going seems to be leading us or at least me wich means us.
thing is that seems a cheeseless tunnel as I've gone that route before.
suggestions on how to venture down that route? how to phrase things in a manner that will be heard and responded to without defensiveness...obviosly we can't do anything about passivity...seems when I try to have such a conversation I'm met by a silent wall.
