second verse same as the first

[Denver_2010]

2Step,

Just a question. Are you trying to delay the D using a A ?
My W filed for D on 1/3/11. This was when i was out of the country. Since we are in TX (no fault) and seeking mediation, I guess there's a 60 day window after which the D will be issued.

Iam breaking by head trying to figure out how to delay the D out. Talking to A looks like he's gonna eat up all our savings. Meanwhile I am also DBing (a little).

I am looking to see if any of you gurus dealt with this issue and how.

Thanks !

Karma - I struggled with this decision too. My W has never actually filed for D or LS. When she was talking about it, I did tell her that I planned on getting an attorney if she filed "to make sure that we are both treated fairly".

I have also told her this:

“W, I've told you before that I still love you and still think that we can have a great life together as both a couple and a family. I've not changed my mind on that. But I understand you are not happy, that you do not feel happy or complete inside.

You need to do what will make you happy. By my side, we live as partners, we share everything and we would do anything to help one another. But that's only if we continue as a team.

I won't stand in your way. But I also will not help you leave this marriage or this family. And I will never accept another person being a part of our life together.

I hope you find the happiness you are looking for. Go do what you need to do. You know where I will be.”

My W has not brought the issue up in a month.

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Denver