I did feel that it was off the track of DBing to bring up how good I've been about answering her calls. She needs to notice on her own. I look weak by pointing it out to her.
If this is what you mean, excluding my W and D, the three most important things in my life are:
1) Piece of mind. I want to be able to rest at the end of the day. Right now I feel as if I never stop, I am so exhausted
2) Keep our home. I have move a lot in my life and want to just be able to have a consistent home. My W and I used to talk about that a lot. Her life has been similar to mine and I know she is tired of moving too. We both love this house and even though she won't admit it now, it would kill her if our house sold.
3) I want to feel a zest for life again! I used to love getting up in the morning. Now I have trouble finding motivation to do anything. It has been getting better since I began my 180/LRT but still nowhere near were I want to be