just curious....when will either of us know it is time to reconcile? I have read DR and DB, but my head is so boggled with info and emotions-I'm having a hard time telling my head from my you know what. Everything just seems so abrupt and sudden and Im trying not to get my hopes up. I'm just gonna keep acting "as if!" I'm just so scared.......It is strange how you can be with someone for 17 years and BAM you're back to chasing a guy you like. Really does go against everything.
I can't stop thinking about him going back and forth between me and the OW. Do I just have to accept that for now and I hope that through reconnecting he will decide to end it with her.
When the other woman is pregnant, does that make it even harder for them break away from her. He knows that I'm here to support him and be here for him as his "wife" to help raise the child.
