2-at least your W is willing to talk to the DB Coach with you. I had missed this part somewhere in the thread chain. I'm really stoked for you and I hope it helps her find her way. I am also envious of you too - my H would NEVER consider any type of C'g.

BITS

M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0
T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd)
WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved
Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10
Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11