Things are looking up a little, I think??? HELP

[zengypsy]

I would be cautiously optimistic. It's intersting how these EA/PA die out as quick as they start.

You have to reconnect before you can reconcile. Start out as friends again because you both are diff people now. You have to see if these versions of you both will work to make a new marriage and it very well may.

If you have the DR book, I suggest you read the Chapter on Infidelity. It will guide you well. I would keep DB'g. Don't pursue, keep your 180's going, show your H you are the person he fell in love with but that you can live your life w/o him too. Men like strong, independent, confident women.

Best of luck to you. Please keep your posts going.

Peace - ZG