I'm pretty sure most of the middle-Eastern guys are probably some Nigerian scam.

I'm sure they would ask you to send money at some point.

What is so surprising to me is, all those young guys who would like to show me a good time! I always thought "cougars" were predatory older women - not true! It's the horny young guys who are apparently the driving force behind that trend - who knew??

I suspect the guys in their 40's are either finally realizing they DO want kids, and therefore dating younger, or have already embarked on midlife crisis with their 50th birthdays looming, and are hoping to stave off the grim reaper by dating a younger woman.