Ran 2 miles today. Met with atty. Have 16 more days to respond to disclosure requests. I have to fill out an income and expenses worksheet. What a pain, but I'm going down swinging.
Atty says W cannot afford the house even with child support (CS). I can't afford it myself if I have to pay CS. Only option to save it is to refinance. W did not demand alimony, which is huge. And she did not make any claim on my IRA (which I had before we met and did not make any contributions to during the M) So that's good, unless she changes her mind which she's apt to do, I think she's resigned to having to kiss the house goodbye. One aspect of the looney fantasy about to crumble. I firmly believe that the sooner she's gone, the sooner she might realize what she's lost. No expectations though.
I apolgized to W today for the fighting.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."