I skimmed through this thread and one of your previous ones, and I am trying to understand if there ever was a time when things were good between your H and yourself? You've been waiting *ten* years for things to change? I know we all have niggles (big and small) with our spouses dating from day one, but they are usually overridden by a number of other good things. Can you try and think back to the good times, how you and H were? What kind of things drove you to like, love and marry H in the first place?
I hope I haven't put my foot in it here... just a reaction to what I have read on your threads so far!
Livnlearn
(Newbie piecer)
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
