SA, please learn from my mistakes. I tried so hard to do what I thought was the right thing and it hurt me.
Your h is going to get angry no matter what you do. He will want to give you nothing. Anything you ask for will anger him because right now he is a child who wants it all.
You do not owe him any information. He wants the divorce and you have a right to protect yourself. | This is what happens when two people divorce. That's the reality. He has to just accept it.
Do what is best for you. In the end, he is not going to be worried about you. He is incapable of that right now.
SA, I know the feelings you are having. I had them, too.
But,I wish that I would have looked out for me more.
