Quote: oh and btw...1 turned into 4 wich has now turned into 5 who knows maybe he'll call again and it will be 6.
again son was told by his dad that he was only going into work for a little bit and now son is waiting and waiting...how many times can I say soon? how long before I too get aggrivated?
and men wonder why they end up with a waw???
LL
What if for 1 week you stopped trying to nail down when h will be home? If you stopped asking (if you do), if you stopped telling S a definitive time, if you stopped reacting with agreement when h says a time...
I'm not suggesting do this for a lifetime. I'm suggesting do it for a week.
If you have plans that he must be home for in order for you to get out of the house...tell him in no uncertain terms: You need to be home by X time on this day.
I'm ASSuming that h is able to do that when there is no other choice?
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.