We met when she was 19 and I was 23 she lived with her mom but moved out on her own for a few months before her I moved in together. We have been together ever since. I think she is trying to prove something to herself but at what expense?
hat's intersting. When I met my H he was 21 and I was 27. His parents were in the process of a D after 25 years and my H had no where to go, so he moved into my house. Well, it was my Grandmother's at the time. So he's never lived on his own but now has moved 3 times in a year. I don't know what they are trying to prove. I can only equate it to what my H said.."If you love something set it free, if it comes back to its yours, if it doesn't it never was your to begin with." It's so cliche and true at the same time.
So does that mean if the D goes thru our WAS's were never ours? I mean you can't get any freer than getting a D.
UGH....everything is a a jumbled, confused messQ!
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
