I AM piecing... Now I need to stay on track...

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grr, thanks so much. I have been reading your sitch and I am sorry you are back. Don't take the full blame. BOTH people need to feed each others LL. The behavior of one changes the other. This not only works FOR a M but also against it.

lost, I love that movie. And I remember that part. I have been reading your sitch as well. Keep wrking lost. You are doing the right things.

One last thing. I took the hard line approach with regard to OM. I told W that if she continues to see HIM then she needs to leave. Leave the bedroom right away and leave the house within 60 days. I still believe that was the correct choice. I believe that a spouse will not respect you if you let it go on. I understand everyone's sitch is different. But allowing an EA or PA to go on is such disrespect. My W was in an EA. That is over and has been for 3 months. If she decides to see, talk, text. or email, she's done! There are consequences to bad choices. Yes, I ran the risk of losing W. But I need to look myself in the mirror every morning.

So I asked myself, "do you deserve a faithful spouse?" Answer, DANM RIGHT I DO!!!

And you all do too...