lisacul: I am new here so I'm like you are--looking for answers. My husband left me 7months ago with no explanation. I suspect that he is living with OW. Even after all that I miss him terribly and would do anything to have him back. Sometime I think that I'm so pathetic too. Most people would think I would be crazy to even want him back. Unfortunately I don't think that will ever happen because I don't think he ever even thinks of me. My husband is 46 so sometimes I think it's MLC.