Zen and 2step, Glad you enjoyed it. It makes me feel good to know that I helped someone today. I advise trying this yourself. Go out there and find a WAS and grill them. I am sure you probably know at least one somewhere. Pick their brains. It will help you to better prepare for interactions with your WAS. I feel soooooo much more prepared after speaking with him. And this is the most important part. After speaking with him, I honest feel like I can better understand my W now. Amazing what one dinner conversation can do!!
Zen, to answer your question, no. They ended up reconciling before the D was final. He told me that after he went home, they had a ceremonial burning of the D papers together to symbolize their new dedication to each other. Tonight I will go to bed and hope that you too get to have a nice funeral pyre for your papers!!!
BITS!
FOBD
FOBD - If I ever have that burning ceremony, it will be after the D is final. My time is drawing near. But keep that hope alive for me please!
BITS
M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
