2 - She sounds like she's trying to convey what my H said to me...we have to learn to live our lives w/o each other.

Has she ever lived on her own? I know I should know this since I've been following your posts. But it IS 3 threads later!

It's part of the process I guess that they have to prove their independence. I don't understand, but I'm trying to have empathy for their confused state of thought.

Sandi has some GREAT advice. I would love for her to take a look at my thread and give her evaluation. She is one of the many board vets who replies I have latched onto.


BITS

M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0
T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd)
WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved
Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10
Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11