For the most part, I agree with him. Not that we get into those types of discussions anymore, but I do. However, when he truly has become a jerk about something, I just can't sit back and do nothing. This time, I did not confront him, I just left the house. He kept calling me. I wouldn't argue about it, but simply stated how I felt and I moved on. There are just certain things I will not agree with and treating me poorly is one of them. Now I don't mean treating me poorly by leaving me... that's his decision and it doesn't really constitute treating me poorly. But what I won't be is a doormat for him. I deserve respect and when that doesn't happen, then I'm going to say something when confronted.
He does not like being told when he's a jerk (even when I stated in a much nicer way than I am doing here). He readily admitted he was wrong and apologized quite a bit. I told him that I knew he was sorry and that he need only apologize once. But, he's turned a cold shoulder again, which is fine. It's the only child in him... he's used to people catering to his every whim.
I get tired of the games. I was never that type of girl. Being born and raised in NY, I just kind of say what's on my mind. That's perhaps why this whole thing is so exhausting to me. I can't say how I feel. I don't question the technique, because I know it is right, but it's still exhausting.
I think I'm just waiting for the end at this point.
