Spirit,

I'm very sorry that you find yourself here. There is a wealth of knowledge and experience in the threads on this board.

Originally Posted By: Spirit
I don't know why I was able to come through on the other side. It did seem like there was a small voice saying this is the way through.

This ^^^^^ caught my attention. Is it possible that your W's presence throughout your MLC was what helped you to come out the other side? Is it possible that you might be able to provide the same "small voice" for her?

I'm at this for 27 months now and am just starting to feel that I am at the point where I know that I am healing.

Originally Posted By: Spirit
I meet many stuck people and having a relationship with a stuck person is not a relationship.

Yes, I agree. There are a lot of stuck people out there and it's very difficult to know that because people put on their best faces.

The questions that have been posed to you are good ones. You don't necessarily need to answer all of them publicly, but please take the time to answer them for yourself.

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