And really, at this point I don't care what sort of message it sends to her....a bowl of soup is used for a reason to get divorced.

Some WAS's are hostile, and will do anything to torture the LBS, there comes a time when being the attractive choice, or to keep showing them respect when they show you none is out the window.

If the WAS won't answer the phone, because she is on the phone or waiting for a call, then a cell I pay for guarantees 15 minutes a night with my kids...well guess what? I'm doing it.

She made this minefield, I have to navigate it.

M-38
W-37
T-16,M-11 (Oct 30,1999)
S-5
S-2
Wife left 7/4/2010

"When life hands you a lemon, say, 'Oh yeah, I like lemons! What else ya got?"
— Henry Rollins