I've been standing and also GAL but my GAl is now allowing me to meet some women who would like to go out. I am keeping it all just as a friends thing but you get to a point where you have to move on.
What do you want Sprirt?
Not these women, not your W, not the neighbor...
You?
If it is to continue standing, you will finds lots of support...
I read that you had your own crisis...
This is not quite as simple as time and space unfortunatly...
In a crisis and as the LBS, as I am sure you know, we have things that we need to look at, things about ourselves that we can change...
Seeking has asked you some very good questions, and it is a good place to start IMO...
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
