oh I know this is terrible but I had too...

was sitting here (or there) thinking what it means to be a wife and perhaps I'm confused and a wife IS supposed to care for the home and the kids and then be so tired at the end of the day she just goes to sleep and pushes her h off of her or accepts with disinterest (that is after all the stereotypical w isn't it) but that just isn't me...

so a searching I went to my web dictionary and got a good laugh when I looked up the definitions of both h and w...

Main Entry: [2]husband
Function: transitive verb
Date: 15th century
1 a : to manage prudently and economically b : to use sparingly :

Main Entry: wife
Pronunciation: 'wIf
Function: noun
Inflected Form(s): plural wives /'wIvz/
Etymology: Middle English wif, from Old English wIf; akin to Old High German wIb wife
Date: before 12th century
1 a : dialect : WOMAN b : a woman acting in a specified capacity; used in combination <fishwife>
2 : a female partner in a marriage

hardi har har...looks like the jokes on me..I should have looked up the definitions BEFORE getting married.

LL