How do you deal with your W during exchanges (of the kids) and phone calls? My emotions are all over the place esp since I found out about her OM and she moved out. Seeing her knowing she is with someone else eats at me. I still miss her too, so I will sometimes make comments about where or what she is doing, (or who she is doing) which I know I shouldn't be. Same with phone calls. If I have the girls, she will call them at bedtime to say goodnite, and I can tell she is out some where.
I'll say something like "so, you have time to stay out all nite, sleep all day, and still don't have a job". And when I call her to talk to the girls, I just talk to my girls, and I will hear her say to them she wants to talk to me, but I'll just hang up after I say my good nites to the girls before she gets back on the phone.
I just don't want to see her or talk to her at all right now and that impossible to do when you have kids together.
Me 44 H 39 Met in 1998 Married in 2004 D 5, twins Bomb - May 16th, 2010
"Don't let Tomorrow or Yesterday get in the way of Today"
