Alamo I completely agree with dbmod. She did call you for help with the car. Whether she said no in the end, her first thought was still you. Take that part of the sitch as a positive.

I had a convo with my H yesterday about wanting a man that is there for me. We are looking for our knight in shining armour. Please don't be afraid to help her...even if she is putting you through the gears! It will come back as a good thing for you.

Hope it all went okay after the phone call with her.

Me:35, 2 kids from PR
H: 37, 2 kids with me
T: 15 years
M: 8 years in Feb.
Second walk out: 14-01-2011
H had PA: 2007