Lighthouse lit until WAW comes out of fog 2

[Bolt]

the thing is, she is the only one who can find that out. My W had to literally go back to where she grew up to help find out who she was. I'm lucky in the fact that she found out and realized she has a pretty good life right now.

If you try to help her, she may resent it. It's a slippery slope because if you were her happiness, you want to be there for her.

Maybe it's time for a little talk regarding that? Be understanding but don't necessarily give solutions.