The separation plan continues and i think we are on an irreversible course to sell the house at least. W as highly irritable and frustrated over the weekend. I think my PMA, politeness and confident/business like attitude is getting to her.
The inlaws came over on the weekend and i actually chatted it up with MIL and got along fine. Discussed things with FIL and surprisingly he said he was just staying neutral. I sense that W doesnt necessarily have the family support i though she had. There is certainly no animosity towards me from anyone other than W.
I sense that she is realizing this is not all a piece of cake and not everyone will fall over themselves to pity her or congratulate her on her brilliant plans.
Meanwhile, i keep myself busy and sparse at the same time. The plan is to have the house up for sale in 2 weeks. My W cannot complain if i'm not fast enough since she hasnt lifted a finger on her end.
I have had some time to think and once we are separated physically i will have ample opportunity to employ a LRT or go dark, as much as you can while still being with the kids. I don't know how you can do it actually without simply just trying to have no contact with your spouse. Why i think that DB'ing for W at this point is still viable i dont know.
