I was need to talk to my ex about our home debt, something very important,,,,,,,but NO EAY will he give me time to breathe on the phone until he hangs up? Why is this do you think? Why couldnt he speak to me fro a few mins. She is not around and would not have to know, I need to get this debt settled. (long story).
If the debt is in HIS name, too; you may have to take him to court to get it settled.
That might be the ONLY way you would get this settled.
Like you say, he's trying to wipe your existence off the face of the earth...and from what you describe in his new wife; it looks like he has jumped straight out of the frying pan, and into a very hot fire.
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.
