Seeking answers My MLC ended about a 1 1/2 before my wifes started. Could it have? I guess because I was so out of it I really don't remember about a year of my life when in the fog. So I definetely was not there for her.
We remained together. She did DB with out even recognizing she was doing it. I did not have an affair. about 1 1/2 of total lethargy/depression. The last 6 months was the trip out. I di have an apartment ready and said I was leaving. This was in my anger at her and depression phase.
Wife had mentioned divorce about 3-4 months ago. Her MLC is telling her to escape and find the life she missed. I am in the way as she has said. She did wait for me yes. I don't think she has the tools to get through this with us intact. But I don't know why I was able to come through on the other side. It did seem like there was a small voice saying this is the way through.
As I said when you GAL and your out doing things you meet people and you say I could move on and it would be much nicer. I love my wife but I meet many stuck people and having a relationship with a stuck person is not a realtionship.
Again I am just torn and maybe need or could use a ray of hope to make a longer stand.
Icame through MLC a very gentle kind soul and for that 1 1/2 out of MLC it was a great marriage. I didnt think i would be where i am no way!!
