I've been around...mostly posting on a thread in the sexual issues forum and otherwise starting trouble with folks on the bb.
I haven't bothered to post much here cause there doesn't seem to be much of a point.
I pretty much annoy the crap out of anyone that does try to help.
I know the problems in my marriage are not unique...the thing that seems unique is that they began long before we were married so alot of the solutions people offer up just don't cut through the muck.
my m is what it is...I have a few choices...
1. accept it for what it is and do the best I can to keep myself happy and at all costs avoid complaining and/or having an a to get that intimacy I crave
2. try (yet again) to address the "issues" with h and hope that something changes
3. give up and be misserable
4. wait it out a while and make the best of it and then if nothing changes give up.
